
Gracie joined our home pack in August, and it was clear that she wasn’t accustomed to dogs. We knew that she was shy and sensitive when we got her, so we’ve been patient, knowing she needed time. We gave Gracie my husband’s home office as a safe room.

We kept the door shut for a few days as she adjusted to him and me and the sounds and smells of our home. She would freak out a bit if the dogs barked at someone at the door or if when parrots squawked at sunset. Eventually, we left Gracie’s door open with a baby gate keeping the dogs out. Gracie could see them through the gate but feel safe.

I worked in the room occasionally and let the dogs join us during their afternoon naptime. That way, they would be near Gracie at their most non-threatening time. River was so excited to meet Gracie! She wanted nothing more than to be Gracie’s best friend, but Gracie was terrified. She is a small kitten and River is a tall standard poodle; her size was intimidating.

River knew just what to do, though, and she spent hours laying outside Gracie’s room trying to look small. She’d watch Gracie through the dog gate, and when Gracie watched her back, they were eye-to-eye. If I let her in, she’d walk into the room and then immediately lay down on her stomach, so she was more approachable.

Little by little, River and Gracie became good friends. Now when they see each other, they pause for a little nose-kiss!

Great story! They are both beautiful animals.
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Thank you! They’ve got wide-open hearts.
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What a wonderful job you – and River! – did in taking it slowly for Gracie. Aren’t they so sweet together!!
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River is so excited to have a new friend, and I think Gracie feels the same way. She’s warming up to the others more slowly.
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So cute!
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How great that Gracie is comfortable with River now. They sure look like they enjoy each others company now.
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They do!
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Delighted to hear that they’re friends now. What a gorgeous little and large combination!
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Awww thank you for sharing this sweet story! River is to be commended for being so patient and sensitive. I am sure that helped Gracie enormously! Sooo happy they are the best of friends! That is “meow-velous!”
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We were very proud of River, who caught on pretty quickly that she had to appear smaller, and would lay on her belly. She has really missed Jazz and Mystic in the months since they were gone. She’s ecstatic to have a new friend!
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OMG! So sweet….I am so happy Gracie & River have become friends!! River is such a wonderful dog. A heartwarming story with a very happy ending!!
((hugs)) Sherri-Ellen & **purrsss** BellaDharma
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I’m all for happy endings!! Yay!
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Us here too Miss Karel us here too….
**purrsss**
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Awwwww, what a sweet little kitten! I’m glad she’s making herself at home and making friends.
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Me, too! She was so shy at the shelter that we almost didn’t see her hiding behind some toys in the corner. So it really warms my heart to see her gaining confidence and feeling so secure. If there is ever any trouble with our older cat, River races to the rescue and shuts that down fast.
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Cats are much harder to introduce – usually – to a household than dogs. You’ve done a great job, and we’re so glad there is peace and goodwill. Wow, sounds like Christmas!
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It feels like Christmas! The first time Gracie approached me in my bedroom, having left her safe room and roamed the house, I teared up. I was so pleased that she felt safe enough to leave her room, and that she sought me out. She is finally getting over her timidness and being brave. We are so proud of her!
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Do the parrots have a safe space from Gracie?
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Sugar and Hannah share a cage.
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Gracie is gorgeous! I have two grays myself and find them to be very friendly. Much more so than my tortie! You have done it right! I have never had any issues accepting new cats into our crew except for one cantankerous old black cat in the 90s. She didn’t like anyone and I have scars to prove it! She lived to be a ripe 18 but as she aged I kept her segregated from the pack. You made my day! Love happy endings!
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She’s doing great with the dogs, but our older cat has not yet fully succumbed to her charms. A truce is in the works, there.
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Sometimes that’s all it is. A truce. I got Morgan when Jake was around 16. He was diabetic and old but he let her know (with a few head womps) that he didn’t intend to play with her. She respected that and kept her distance. I never had any trouble. She preferred sleeping with Hazel anyway.
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Nami is 14 and has been concerned that she would lose her favored sleeping place and favorite mor in cuddle time. As she sees those continue, Nami has been less aggressive. Progress has been slow, but we see them hanging out peacefully in the same room more often now.
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Mollie, our current senior is not fond of Sasha, our current youngster but over the months she has mellowed. Sometimes she yells at her if she encroaches on her space. Other times she cleans her face. All good.
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I guess it’s a normal evolution of relationship.
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