
I’ve felt unwell for several weeks, struggling to work full-time, manage my business, and deal with the family and holidays. I’ve been so tired that I can barely function some days. So, I look to my pets to cheer me up and see the wonder in the season.

Nami has been resistant to Gracie’s addition to the family, but she is not a vicious cat. There were a few skirmishes, nothing much, but the tension was palatable. It has been a relief to find signs of acceptance.

I’ve been concerned that shy little Gracie would be too scared to stand her ground, but she has been growing in confidence over the past few months. Nami will hiss or growl at her, maybe even swat her, and Gracie will wait for her to blow over, then shrug it off. You can practically see her roll her eyes, thinking, “Whatever!” Then she would continue doing as she pleased. I was so proud of her to see her shift from shy to confident and accepting her place in the family.

Every week we see a little progress. Now, we see our kitties napping in the same sunbeam, several feet away from each other. They both sleep in the bed with us, no longer fighting about it. We are finding peace in our household among the cats. The season is moving on and eventually, I will bounce back.

Omg so adorable!
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My two cats always help me find a smile on the bad days…the good days too!
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I am not surprised that the cats claim the dog bed! They are simply asserting their position as Alpha Pet. 🤣
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Yup. Too bad the dogs are not amused!
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Gracie is just too adorable. 😍
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And oh so cuddly!
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I am convinced they are furry angels sent to help us along . . .
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Me too!
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your girls are GORGEOUS and OMG I AM DYING OVER THAT BED! Please, take good care of yourself. You do not want to make yourself sick! xoxo
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The bed is quite a hit. I don’t know if it’s the memory foam pad or the fake fur cover, but it is a quick favorite!
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I love the picture and thought of Nami taking her catnip “prey” into the tub where it cannot escape. Smart kittie! Looking at that dog bed she has claimed, I can’t blame her. Again, smairt kittie! Glad there are signs of progress between the two. Please give them both a scritch from me, as I can’t have a cat anymore.
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My husband and I are both operatic to cats, but couldn’t figure out how to live without them! We have time instead of carpet and take our antihistamines. We’re suckers for a good purr.
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When he has had to be around cats, my hubby’s reaction have varied from being bedridden for 2 days to going to the emergency room. But I am like you about dogs. I just can’t imagine living without one.
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Wow. I feel so lucky that I have a runny nose and my husband gets itchy skin. These are not near so debilitating! I’m glad you can at least have dogs!
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I hate to admit it, but I would have chosen Lexi if that were the case. (And Jeff is a very wonderful man, too.)
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I’m sorry you’re not well. Winter is hard on my Fibromyalgia, too. Like you, I feel privileged to have Penny looking after me. I think she missed me a little after the two weeks I spent in bed with her after my surgery! She’s always been an affectionate cat, but more now since then. Get well soon.
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Thanks. I’m working on it. In the meantime, the cats and dogs are doing their best to help!
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I’m sorry you are not feeling well but having cats around sure does help.
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Yes, they help! Purr and cuddle therapy is the best.
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🙂
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Beautiful cats.
I hope you’re feeling better now.
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Working on it.
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Delighted to hear the girls are getting there — both quite beautiful too. Hope your energy returns and the festivities go well. Happy Christmas!
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Thank you. We are so pleased to have the tension between the two cats subsiding. They are both such sweeties!
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We’re sorry to hear you haven’t been feeling well. At least you have your kitties to help you feel better. They are both so cute. It’s good to hear they are beginning to get along.
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We are very pleased. I must have missed a post or two from you. How did Walter’s surgery go? We went energy and prayer to help!
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The surgery went well and he is all healed now. We recently received the pathology report and there were clean margins so there shouldn’t be a recurrence of the tumor. Thanks for all the healing prayers and energy.
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I’m so glad !
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I’m upset. Your cats get to share the bed. Our dogs get to share the bed. I never get that and I’m locked in my cage and covered up at night.
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It sucks to be you, Kismet. Im sure it’s just a safety issue for you. Sorry.
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They are all beautiful! Cats do have a way to lift your spirits, don’t they? 🙂 And by the way, Nami’s catnip toy is Benji’s favorite too!
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I bought the catnip toys for Gracie, but Nami attacked us when we took the stinkers out of their metal box. She wanted them without a doubt. One stays in her killing field (bathtub) that I must move in order to take a bath. She will not let me move it, and Gracie dropped it into the bath with me the last time, so it has permanent residence in the empty tub. They love to play where the toy cannot escape and the dogs don’t get in the way.
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Your kitties are all beautiful. They are the best antidepressants around
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Absolutely!
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I am so hoping to add another kitty to our family, but am afraid of how Roux might react. You give me hope! Feel better soon!
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Thank you! The transition has been slow with lots of reinforcement for both cats. It helped that Gracie did not try to take over the house; she accepted Nami’s queen position. It has taken a while, but things are working out!
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Your Gracie looks a lot like my Gracie (except mine is missing an eye). Same face and nose structure. Sounds like a similar disposition too. I have too gray cats and both are “whatever.”
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I was pleased that Gracie was not cowed. But neither is she trying to take over. She’s exactly what the house needs. Here’s to emotionally stable gray cats! Three cheers!
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Beautiful.
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Beautiful.
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